April 29, 2007

  • GRADUATING!!

    graduating 2morrow!!

    pictures will be up on myspace…..

    finally made it!!

    And who said young moms can’t be successful??? FUCK EM!! I made it….this is all for you baby girl!! MOMMY LOVES YOU!! You are my strength…you have always been and WILL ALWAYS REMAIN my inspiration/dedication/motivation for life. WE made it to this point TOGETHER!!

January 15, 2007

  • I’ll be blogging on myspace now. I won’t be able to update on a regular basis but I’ll try my best to keep everybody updated on how I’m doing.

    This is my last semester of nursing school so I KNOW I’m gonna have a lot of stress I’m gonna need to disperse of somehow! I’m sorry I haven’t been commenting/keeping in touch the way I used to…but we all know how life can get super hectic.

    Thx to everybody who still checks up on me. I hope everybody had a VERRRRRY HAPPY HOLIDAYS & started this new year on a good foot! Wish me luck for this next semester coming up! ** NEW PICTURES in my photoblog!! **

July 11, 2006

  • damn–long ass time since my last entry

    i seriously thought i’d be able to blog more since its the summer–but since the summer began all i do is work NONSTOP then
    spend time w/family when i get the chance. I haven’t even had the
    chance to catch up on my drinking habit–HEHEHE–as if i even had one

    work is BADASS!! i loveeeee being there–even
    on the worst of days i still love it. when i’m working i feel
    useful–and wanted. its not like when all i’m doing is studying. when
    its school time i just feel like i’m working for free.

    to catch up on things–kim graduated from pre-K. she’s gonna be starting KINDERGARTEN this
    year. i’m pretty sure i’m gonna be able to bring her in for her 1st
    day. might even hang around for a little bit just to make sure she’s
    ok. i’m sooooo nervous for her. she does great in her pre-K program
    she’s in now but the class is smaller and more focused on each
    individual child. now she has a more serious curriculum & slightly
    more pressure. i know its all about “satisfactory & unsatisfactory” but i have HIGH hopes for my child. I KNOW I KNOW!! thats NOT good–its
    too much pressure. to me–depending on the pressure–maybe it’ll be a
    good thing?!? i’m gonna try my damndest to keep it in control–but i
    expect my baby to be in the honor roll/honor society. i expect her to
    strive for WANTING to be in the talented & gifted group. i’m want
    her to strive for more than what i’ve earned for myself.

    thats what pushes me so much to earn my degree. its been a known fact
    that children raised in a family that focuses attention on education
    end up working hard & achieving higher degrees than their parents
    before them. soooooo–if thats the case–i’d be MOREEE THAN HAPPY
    to see Kim do way better than me!! if there’s anything in life i can
    give her or teach her to maintain its DRIVE. drive to want more in life
    than a few moments of careless fun. fun is when you’ve earned the right
    to just throw things down and truly enjoy what you’ve worked long &
    hard for. to be able to truly reap the rewards of HARD WORK! i know
    she’ll be rebellious sooner or later–but i want her to look forward to
    more than that.

    ya’ll get what i mean!

    I’M A SENIOR this semester!! ONE MORE YEAR YA’LL!! from PCT (patient care tech) to NURSE EXTERN–then finally to GRADUATE NURSE–and thennnnnnnn ((drumroll)) REGISTERED NURSE!! damnnnnnnnnnnn!!
    can’t wait for that shit to happen!! its like i can’t grasp it just
    yet–can’t look too far ahead of the future just to possibly be
    disappointed. but….i feel like i can taste whats waiting for me.
    waiting for me to just reach out and GRAB it!! grab it like a man
    groping a strippers titty at a bar!! OoOoOOoo wweeeeee!!

    this year is gonna be me & quang’s 9 year anniversary. 9 years and
    thank God i finally got my ring. 5-6 years of living together & not
    married yet. do i even really wanna get married? i know for sure i
    don’t want the whole ceremony. i’m just not that type of girl. what i
    have now–I LOVE!! after so many years and i still get butterflies. no
    bullshit!! i fucking LOVE this man!!

    –his rough hands
    –his pure simplicity w/as little complication as possible
    –the smell of his old spice deodorant
    –his big ass head
    –how much of an outdoor man he is
    –MR. FIXIT
    –the protective feeling i have when i’m around him
    –WONDERFUL FATHER!!

    GOD I LOVE THIS MAN!!



    i’ve been seeing some stupid bullshit online. i may sound like some old
    woman expressing what i’m bout to express–but seriously–its annoying
    as hell!!

    stupid young ass broads & their dumbass ONLINE banging

    ** as entertaining as
    some shit is sometime–i don’t get how some females would wanna waste
    their time reciprocating stupid bullshit. ITS IGNORANT!! and if there’s something that annoys me more than anything its a bunch of asians (actually AZNs) showing how ignorant truly respectable/proud ASIANS can be!!

    SERIOUSLY!!
    how is it so many kids these days have such little values. regardless
    of what kinda background you come from–there’s a way to turn a shitty
    life into something/somebody great. having a shitty ass life should be
    more reason & DRIVE to want something better. to strive for a
    better life!! instead of wasting valuable time & energy–time that
    mannnnny people don’t realize is just tick-tick-ticking away before you
    know it you’re at the end of your string wishing/regretting you could
    have done more. SURE SURE–many people out there talk their shit saying
    I WON’T REGRET!!
    but when you’re on your death bed surrounded (or maybe NOT surrounded)
    by those who love you–or when you’re in the split second of a moment
    that puts you into that situation to look back on everything in
    life…..ASK YOURSELF–have i truly done everything in my power to live life to the fullest?!?

    its cliche &
    everybody has had that lecture–but i truly wish every dumb ass person
    (especially young girls) could spend ONE WEEK in a hospital unit full
    of dying patients–to see how many individuals out there DIE ALONE!! no bullshit!! young folks don’t realize their own mortality. most NEVER will!! its a sad, sad thing–to see so many people that have soooo much potential make NOTHING out of themselves.

    i just had to let that out. thats been getting on my LAST DAMN NERVE!!
    stupid ass online banger motherfuckers. even if you’re gonna back it up
    in person its nothing but stupid ass bullshit. wanna look big & bad
    in front of your friends. wanna feel accomplished inside for being able
    to kick some ass. and for what?? some dumb ass shit talking that
    could’ve been squashed by just blowing off the bullshit. eh–why even
    waste my breath when i know good & well that dumb ass bitches will
    NEVER learn! there’s always gonna be some stupid ass broads out there
    talking their shit–wanna to back up stupid bullshit–and NOT MAKING
    ANYTHING OUTTA THEMSELVES!!

June 5, 2006

  • -Back @ Work-

    During the semester I don’t think I worked a single day. So yesterday was my first day back since winter break. Before I left home as I was getting ready I kept thinking in my mind, Please God let it be a good day. PLEASE GOD!!” I
    just kept thinking…if I’m gonna have totals that I have to turn let
    me only have a few–if I’m gonna have blood sugars lemme only have
    4–lemme get ALL my blood draws–lemme have good nurses to work with.

    I go in pretty much exactly on time–230pm. Get my
    change of shift report and I didn’t start doing my vital signs till
    about 300pm. THATS LATE!! For me at least. I like to start @ 230pm cuz
    we can start clocking in after 152pm. I figured…damn…I gonna be
    behind. I kept telling myself–damn it Charlene, get your rhythm back.
    The other tech will be done before you & you’ll be stuck doing all
    these blood sugars. I ended up having only 5–good number, not too much
    just enough. To find out..I ended up being ahead of the other tech. I’m sure her side was killer. We had 15 patients each–trust me..THATS A LOT!!
    But my side was good. Had no trouble. The patients that needed assisted
    care had family rooming in–which is A LOT of help! So I was real happy.

    I was even more happy hearing the things my coworkers were saying.


    The other tech had told me she was glad to have me back for the summer.
    Several nurses told me they think I do a good job–saying it throughout
    the shift. Then…during dinner a nurse that I didn’t even work with
    during my shift came in & was saying good-bye. The usual have a
    good night & be careful–then he came back into the break room and
    said, I just wanted to let you know I think you’re a hard worker. Its rare that you see someone willing to help the way you did.” See…this is what happened. The other tech went to dinner first so I had to help with her side. One of her patients ended up n
    onstop pooping when she left so of course…had to help
    clean up. Didn’t mind…we do it ALL THE TIME!! Trust me..I’m not even
    overexagerating…WE CLEAN UP ALL THE TIME!! The problem was the
    daughter didn’t really want me to help. I told her I was there to help
    her out. Her mom just kept going to the point we had to wipe it off the
    bed. And the daughter’s technique was ALL WRONG!! She kept doing things
    that could totally KILL HER BACK!! The way she lifted 
    her up–turned her–EVERYTHING!! I just wanted to push her out of the way & tell her LEMME ME F*ING DO IT DAMN IT!!
    But…she wanted to take charge so I let her go ahead & do
    that..WHATEVER!! Anyhow….to make a long story short….that daughter
    got on my last damn nerve!! She was talking to me as if I didn’t know
    what the hell I was doing. Giving me directions as if I’m some kind of
    dumb ass on the floor to do nothing. Hate people like that!! High &
    mighty power hungry mother fuckers!! AHHHHHHHHH!

    Ok…that out of the way…I still had a good time at work. Where do you ever hear that?? Somebody saying they had a good time @ work after cleaning up never-ending poop! It doesn’t matter…coming back to work I see now I LOVE what
    I do. I love taking care of people! Very cliche sounding I know, but I
    LOVE seeing that I assisted in helping others feel better in their time
    of need. Got work again today…this time I’m no longer a PCT…..

    I’M A NURSE EXTERN!!!!!!!

May 31, 2006

  • = make a VOTE =

    Which one do ya’ll think is better.
    I’m aiming for something not everybody would have, but I’m pretty sure
    do have..hehe–but also something feminine. The reason I want a dragon
    is because Kim & Quang are dragons. This way I don’t tattoo
    anybody’s name on me but yet the tattoo still means something very near
    & dear to me. I’ll get it for sure before the next semester starts.
    I’ve been wanting a dragon tattoo in the mid of my back between my shoulder blades for a while
    now. I was thinking about getting it in Sepia–my reasoning for that is
    cuz I think with the tattoo being tribal if I use straight black it
    might seem kinda harsh. What do ya’ll think????

                                             
    [1]                                                                  
      
    [2]                                                       
       [3]

    I was leaning towards #1 at first especially with the coloring–but–now I realllllly like #3. Hmmmmmmmmmmm…….

  • new pix added to my photoblog…just CLICK

May 26, 2006

  • **LAST DAY OF 2ND SEMESTER**



    1) EVERY morning of nursing school

    2) me & my buddy tony

    3) my Mexican MAMI Lily

    1) Lily & my Greek lady Anna

    2) (left-right) Maury/Tony/Jay

    3) Maury & his baby mamas-Lily/Anna

    1) the girls

    2) I <3 LILY

    3) (left-right) me/Lily/Jay

    4) the 2 coolest guys in the ENTIRE ADN program

    1) OoOo weee…I see boobage!!

    2) GET A ROOM!!!

    This was my BEST semester ever…and
    when I mean best I mean OVERALL. Grades & everything that comes
    with it. I earned 2 A’s and a  B in lecture. If I keep it up I’m
    hoping to graduate with some kinda honors. Iono what the GPA has to be
    for all those “laude” (cum/suma) whatever the hell. But…all I know is
    I’d LOVE to have special tassles….or rope..whatever the hell that
    prestigious special I can pick you outta the crowd thingies are. Ya’ll
    know what I’m talking bout!! I don’t want just the cap &
    gown….and if I don’t get special shtuff from the school…imma stick
    a sign on myself during graduation saying I KICKED ASS in college!!

    I can’t believe its already the end of May. I’m going back to work but
    this time as an extern. I’M EXCITED!! I’ve been able to spend more time
    with Kim. Time that I missed out on during the semester since I pretty
    much dedicated every WAKING hour to studying. Plus….spend time with
    my mama. She’s been spoiling me wayyyyy too damn much. But..who can
    complain…shit…NO COMPLAINTS HERE!!

    Oh yah…..I got my ring from Quang too!! To me its perfect & oh so
    dear…considering its 5 years LATE!! But…..BETTER LATE THAN NEVER!!
    Its not a whole carat, but….its S2 clarity. Supposedly from what he’s
    told me is its 2nd to the best to flawless. But….IT DOESN’T
    MATTER….I FINALLY GOT MY RING!!

     

    Helzberg round cut


    5/8 carat


    S2 clarity


    cloudy color


    its NOT yellow gold though, its 18K white gold

    Yes simple….but simplicity brings less
    complication in life…thats what I think!! From people that have seen
    it told me its the kind of ring that’s easier to match with a wedding
    band….so now there’s something else to look forward to in my future.
    I was scared that THE RING would complicate/change things. Cuz I’ve
    seen that happen before. Its as if the true commitment–or what you
    think is a true commitment gets complicated by objects (such as
    rings/marriage license). After they’ve been given the relationship
    changes–and I don’t mean for the good! But…SO FAR SO GOOD!

    Now Father’s Day is coming up and I’M BROKE!! Got no kinda money to be
    giving him something good. I really wanted to give him something as
    good as my ring.

    I really haven’t had anytime for xanga. As bad as that sounds. I can’t
    comment to people’s xangas like I used to. Plus…honestly–I don’t
    have the initiative to even do that anymore. Seems like I’m more down
    for myspace. I might just make xanga more of a photo album and myspace
    my blogger. More of my friends are on myspace so………….we’ll see
    what will happen with “dear xanga..”

May 1, 2006

  • good stufff

    *****edit*****

    I guess a meaningful jot I could put in here is…..

    Its crazy how this semester is almost over. Sucks that I had to repeat
    it, but kicks ass that I repeated it with much better people that have
    helped me in ways they can’t even imagine. I’ve gained so much more out
    of this semester than I have from many other moments in my life.
    Plus…..a perspective into the profession that I willingly dedicate my
    entire life to. A perspective that had been realized and strengthened
    when my father passed, but strengthened even more so. More so to the
    point that becoming a nurse brings tears to my eyes. Not tears of
    fearing that I will, one day, be responsible for keeping up the best
    care/well-being/and maintaining the life of an individual whom I’ve
    NEVER met, but tears of joy that I will be blessed to perform such a
    duty.

    The thought of becoming a nurse overjoys me. As cliche as that may
    sound, because I’m sure many students put up this type of
    testimony…but if you really know me and understood everything I’ve
    been through you’d know that each word that I utter about nursing comes
    straight from my heart and the very depth of my soul.

    Nursing is NO bullshit matter and people really need to understand its
    not just some job you take because you know there will always be a job
    there. If you are even remotely thinking about getting into this
    profession please realize this:

    **DO NOT go into your patients
    room and huff and puff cuz he/she keeps shitting everywhere–ITS YOUR
    JOB
    to put up with days like this

    **DO NOT look at your patients as just another paycheck and just another day of work to get through!!

    **DO look at each patient as an
    individual that could very much be your
    mother/father/sister/brother/spouse and care for them as you would your
    loved one

    **DO everything in your power to
    give the uttmost BEST care possible and go home after each shift and
    feel 100% fulfilled with yourself because you did a KICK ASS job

    **DO realize that eventually,
    that will be you in that hospital bed only hoping that those
    responsible for your care would look at you & care for you with
    nothing but respect

      I want
      this more than anything!! I’ve sacrificed time with my family. Time
      that is PRICELESS, hours and hours and hours of nonstop studying.
      HYPERTENSION and the brink of numerous times of nervous
      breakdowns/anxiety attacks. I am not even bullshittin’!! This is the
      real deal.

      I get sick of dumb motherfuckers that get into nursing for the money!!
      That say they care but they could give less of a shit. I get tired of
      motherfuckers that would rather boss they’re PCTs around to wipe ass
      because its they’re job!!
      That has got to be the biggest bullshit excuse I’ve ever heard!! I am a
      PCT motherfucker….first & foremost that is where I started. I
      know what its like to have a full load of patients that you have to
      turn EVERY 2 HRS because they can no longer do it!! I know what its
      like to clean shit on a daily basis. But sooooo what!! The dirty part
      of the job is nothing compared to seeing the look on my patients’ faces
      after I’ve taken care of them to the best of my ability. To say
      good-bye at the end of my shift and hear them say thank you. Now that
      motherfuckers……is PRICELESS!!



      this semester has been full of ups & downs…AS USUAL!

      But thats just life for yah, isn’t it?

      At least the semester is almost over and I’ll be back to working
      nonstop. Hopefully I’ll be able to pull 16 hr shifts like I did before.
      The BEST thing ever is that my nurse EXTERNSHIP is all lined up, ready,
      and waiting for me to hop on. I just gotta finish up the last 2 tests
      for this semester and one last day of clinical and THATS IT!!
      Externship here I COME!! A $3.00 raise HERE I COME!! I still gotta post
      all my pictures, but thats gonna have to wait till I get done with
      everything. There’s barely anybody that really updates xanga anymore,
      just to put eye candy up and thats bout it. I know I’m prolly one of
      those people though. So……I’m a big ass hypocrite. Eh….WHATEVER!!

      Got no time to put anything meaningful up so………..till the semester is over…………..HIATUS!!

    March 29, 2006

    • >>>> still alive <<<<

      i’m still here, i’ve just been so busy with this semester….

      Its been forever + a day since I’ve had a meaningful update. I can
      still remember posting almost every day. Spilling my guts out like no
      other as if I was gonna die in my sleep. <<—speaking of that I
      have prolly a funny story to others, but a freaky ass situation to me
      to talk about. Anyhowwwwww….

      I still remember blogging about my secret fantasy sexual escapades I
      wish I could make come true. Damn I was a hornball, still am but trying
      to keep it on the DL since who knows what kinda random people or better
      yet, people I DON’T WANT checking my xanga out reading about each and
      every sexual fantasy that I wish I could perform to Angelina Jolie.
      OoOoo weee, better stop there before my ass busts a nut!!

      I’ve got tons…..and tons…..and even after all that still TONS of pictures I gotta upload.

      Good things have been going on this semester though. I’m kicking ass,
      well..kicking ass in my terms compared to me failing lecture last
      semester. I haven’t failed a single Skills check off—-KNOCK ON WOOD!!
      I got my midterm evaluation from my Clinical instructor and received a
      97 on my Major Care Plan. If you’re in nursing school you’ll totally
      understand what that means.

      Repeating
      over & over again the Physical Assessment results, just typing them
      in different formats which equals pretty much a total of 20 pages.




      Typing the health history of the patient. Another 10 pages.



      6 Nursing Diagnoses that directly apply to the patients pathophysiology.



      Plus gotta type/research all the pathophysiologies that pertain to the patient’s current hospitalization.

      In all honesty, its not that hard making a major care plan. But it is time consuming.

      All in all, the semester has been going well. I’ve joined a bad ass
      study group and I’ve been getting good grades on my lecture exams.
      Ohhhh..better yet I got a PERFECT score on my Pharm test. Uhhhh huhhh…uh huh [does a funky dance]!! Yah, not just an A….I GOT A FUCKING 100!! Holw bad ass is that???? OH yahhhhhhhhhh!!

      I’ll update more in depth
      when my laptop gets fixed. The LCD screen is all fudged up so I gotta
      have a technician come and check out whats wrong. So once again…..


      HIATUS…..for now…………………………………………………………till then———LOVE EVERYBODY!!

    February 10, 2006

    • MONEY SUCKS!!!!!!


      But I need it…….


      Taking tests suck, being stressed sucks….I wanna hurry up and get my tattoo!!


      Can I just yell out loud………………………………………………..

      FUCK THIS

      SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


      Lemme stand on a hilltop and yell every profanity I know exists in the
      dictionary….rather than smoking like a chimney. A fire that never
      runs out of lighter fluid, keeps burning to a neverending flame,
      creating an even bigger whole in our ever depleting o-zone layer.

      SORRY THIS MADE NO SENSE!! I’M IN A BAD MOOD!!